Patel, private messages: leaving a chat turned into a guilt trip

Messages timestamped 5:18 PM. Forwarded to an owner on 20 August 2026. Transcribed from the forwarded messages; nothing has been edited or reordered. The other party is anonymized as "Member" at their request.

Patel

Why'd you leave again?

Patel

You okay?

Member

I think I'm tired of chatting there honestly

Patel

How so

Member

Either there's drama discussion or just nothing

Member

And some people, who I don't wanna single out are just annoying to be around at times

Patel

Either there's drama discussion or just nothing

I mean that's generally inaccurate

Patel

And some people, who I don't wanna single out are just annoying to be around at times

And? Just don't interact with them

Patel

As opposed to the other chat you frequent which is literally just people jerking eachother

Member

Girl, I'm just tired, okay? You don't have to defend your chat's honor

Patel

Being tired doesn't justify leaving yoi can just be less active, doesn't justify hurting my feelings by distancing yourself from me

Patel

You need to stop making decisions impulsively

Member

Being tired doesn't justify leaving yoi can just be less active, doesn't justify hurting my feelings by distancing yourself from me

Okay NOW I actually don't wanna talk to you.

Patel

Okay sorry for saying how your actions affected me?? Take some accountability for your sporadic actions instead

Member

I felt bad and I decided to leave a chat And you know that something made me feel bad because it was your first assumption and what you had to say to me is that I hurt your feelings by... leaving a chat? Grow the FUCK UP DUDE

Patel

You are so fucking hostile for no reason sometimes