How to Join

So you want in? Great. Here’s how it works.

Read the Rules First

Go read the Network Rules before you do anything else. Admins are instructed to not reply to you if you try to join without acknowledging them first.

Age Verification

Every space in the network is 18+ (§ 1), so we require some form of documentation to enter (§ 1.2). We do not save your documentation in any way, nor would we ever want to. The only way documentation remains visible to us is if you decide not to delete it in a chat yourself.

The Steps

1. Request to join a chat through the join button.
2. Talk to any of our admins. The staff page shows who they are and who can verify ID. On Telegram, Zuri (one of the owners) handles most verifications, so messaging him directly is the fastest route. On Discord, open a ticket in the server instead; the ticket system walks you through it.
3. Make sure you tell them you are seeking to join a specific chat.
4. Send your ID: a driving license or national ID showing your date of birth (§ 1.5). No ID at hand? A trusted member of the network can vouch for you instead (§ 1.3): either tell the admin who is vouching for you, or have that member message the admin directly.
5. Wait for instructions from the admin. You may be accepted into the group or asked for some further proof of documentation.
6. Once you’re in, you will not be required to send your ID again when joining other groups in the network (§ 1.4).