Patel
Revision history
| Date | Reason | By | Ref |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2026-08-20 | feat(bewares): per-person pages, transcript evidence, Patel entry update (#11) | Zuri | 3352bd8 |
| Username | @PatelSnepp |
| Listed | 2026-08-20 |
| Status | Banned |
| Incident | 260819 |
Pattern
Manipulation, in private messages and between groups. When a member said they were leaving a chat because they were tired, the response was to make that choice about Patel's own feelings, demand the member take accountability for it, and escalate when told to stop. Separately, and over a long period, "what if I killed myself" and "what if I killed my dad", each followed by "thoughts? feelings?", have been used to keep people engaged; this is a recurring tactic, not a one-off. Nothing is ever Patel's fault: conflicts are always caused by the other person, by the chat, or by staff, and warnings are described as never having happened. More broadly: tells different people different versions of events, keeps a foot in every camp while a conflict is open, and commits only once it is clear which side is winning. Treat anything relayed second-hand by this person as unverified.
What to Do
You do not owe anyone an explanation for leaving a chat or stepping back. If a conversation turns into this, you can stop replying and, if you want, forward it to a member of staff. If you are told what somebody else supposedly said or did, ask that person directly. If someone raises self-harm to keep you talking, you are not responsible for carrying that alone: step back and tell a member of staff. If you believe someone is genuinely in danger, contact emergency services where they live.